Thursday, June 30, 2016

Special Me



In this new era of competition, life starts with comparison and ends with it. None is free from it. All of us is busy just to prove our superiority than others. We are concerned about, "I am best" in any field than others. The journey of comparison, for all of us, starts from our home as, "I am better than my cousin." Later in education where ,"I am the topper of my class" then at offices where "I got awarded as the best employee this year" and so on. In this comparison we forget to feel "my specialty." 

My grandparents ran through it, my mother went through it, so am I. Why was I sent to school ? Just because everyone goes. Why was I admitted to engineering school, Just because everyone says. What was I taught all these days? Just what everyone reads. Why didn't they taught me to be the different one? I don’t want to be at your pass list or fail list. Why don’t you create some special list for me. Why don’t you teach me, to write my own book before I read yours. I don’t want to be you, who won the race. I want to be at audience group, who never runs, just observes. I want to be your audience, who pays for seat before he sits.

It's not only mine and your problem. We all are running through the same race. We are born at different time and place, but all of us run the same race. Maybe I am senior than you, maybe you are smarter than me but we belong to the same world, the world of competition and comparison. We are different, but we want to be the same, "The best one." Hard to believe!

Why don’t you create a race, where there is no winner no looser, all is just special one. why do we need to tag everyone with best or worst, good or bad? Why don’t we try to make different tags for all or remove the all tags? Why we are taught to be the richest one? Why we are not asked, "who wants to be a beggar?" Yes! all expectation are for gaining the richest, best, most intelligent, most beautiful tags. Why don’t we are supposed to be the special one, not the most special among all.

Yes, I want to read where there is no limitation of lessons and no comparison who understood the most? Maybe I read it from the different perceptions than you. Maybe at my perception no question arises. The sun is special, the moon is special, so am I and so do you. Let's be special to feel our specialty. Neither I am you nor you are me, so why the comparison between us?

Maybe for you they may look like same, but ask them , they can make you understand they are special. They may look like same but they are special within them.